Love grows
The last few years of my life have been somewhat hectic to say the least and I often find myself too busy to take a step back, chill out, and truely embrace what is happening in the now, however, when I do manage to take a moment to reflect on the meaningful moments in my life, many of them come from the small, and admittedly often overlooked acts of kindness and care that have been shared with me. The truth is, love isn’t always about the great grand gestures or momentous occasions; it’s about the little things—the quiet moments that nurture a relationship and, in turn, nurture the people within it. Although they may not sound like a huge deal breaker, the moments in between are what help strengthen the foundation of a relationship.
I’ve come to believe that love, at its core, is about those quiet, everyday acts that may seem inadequate to others, but mean the world when they are coming from someone who you love. It’s the small touches, the shared glances, the remembering your favourite tea brand, the support, and the laughter that fills the spaces between words. These moments weave the fabric of a strong, healthy relationship.
It is also equally as important to make your partner feel seen. ‘ To be loved, is to be seen’. I mean how can it not be? Try to make sure you are always actively listening to the one that you love because the beauty of it is, when we show up for the people we love in the little ways, we’re not only strengthening our bond but also improving our well-being. When we are in a healthy relationship, where love and care are freely given and received, the positive effect is sure to radiate into every little aspect of our lives. It can lift our mood, improve our mental health, and even boost our sense of purpose and belonging.
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